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The Malta Gay Rights Movement - MGRM is a socio-political non-governmental organisation which has as its central focus the challenges and rights of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community in Malta.

Joint Statement: MGRM & aditus

Maltese MEP’s vote in favour of a resolution condemning homophobic laws and discrimination in Europe.

The Malta Gay Rights Movement welcomes the position taken by the Maltese MEP’s in support of a resolution to condemn homophobic laws and discrimination in Europe adopted by the European Parliament and supported by all the five mainstream political groups. The MGRM acknowledges the important role played by Simon Busuttil who led the negotiations on behalf of the EPP group to ensure a strong resolution. This was the first of its kind in this legislature to be co-signed by the EPP group.

In today’s resolution, the European Parliament “strongly condemns any discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity”.

The Parliament adopted its official position after a debate on Tuesday, where MEPs almost unanimously asked the European Commission and European governments to better protect the rights of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. The resolution particularly condemns recent laws or proposals in EU countries (Lithuania, Latvia, Hungary) and Council of Europe Member States Russia, Ukraine and Moldova, making it a penal or criminal offence to talk positively about homosexuality in public. The resolution also calls for the mutual recognition of the effects of civil status documents when moving from one member state to another and calls on other member states that have not yet done so to introduce the means for legal recognition of same-sex couples.

The MGRM also praises the participation of David Casa in the video produced by the Intergroup on LGBT Rights on the occasion of the International Day Against Homophobia.

Gabi Calleja, coordinator of the MGRM stated: “We look forward to the adoption of various pieces of legislation currently before parliament.”

Neil Falzon, Director of aditus foundation, added: “Whilst we particularly welcome the appeal for legislation recognising same-sex relationships, we strongly urge this to take the form of full marriage equality.  Anything below full equality falls short of guaranteeing respect for human dignity.”

The MGRM commissioned the compilation of a position paper arguing for marriage equality in Malta. 
The legal recognition of same-sex couples is one of MGRM’s main goals and the publication will serve:
As a communication tool that MGRM can use with various sectors of society putting forward its arguments in favour of marriage equality as opposed to other forms of recogntion;
to raise awareness among the LGBT community and other members of society on the different legislative frameworks possible;
as an advocacy tool with politicians, policy makers and other stakeholders;
as a resource for the media when reporting on the issue of legal recognition of same-sex couples and their families;
Download Publication 

The MGRM commissioned the compilation of a position paper arguing for marriage equality in Malta. 

The legal recognition of same-sex couples is one of MGRM’s main goals and the publication will serve:

As a communication tool that MGRM can use with various sectors of society putting forward its arguments in favour of marriage equality as opposed to other forms of recogntion;

to raise awareness among the LGBT community and other members of society on the different legislative frameworks possible;

as an advocacy tool with politicians, policy makers and other stakeholders;

as a resource for the media when reporting on the issue of legal recognition of same-sex couples and their families;

Download Publication 

The New Yorker - the great illustrator Bob Staake has used architecture to symbolize a watershed moment in American politics, beautiful cover

The New Yorker - the great illustrator Bob Staake has used architecture to symbolize a watershed moment in American politics, beautiful cover

IDAHO Poster - design by David Debono 

IDAHO Poster - design by David Debono 

The European LGBT Survey

has over 23 thousand LGBT respondents already, but only 189 from Malta- let us make our experience count!

The European LGBT Survey (http://lgbtsurvey.eu) is still open to all lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans (LGBT) people over the age of 18 in the European Union and Croatia.

Since its launch last month, the survey has reached close to 45,000 respondents, making it the largest European survey on the situation of LGBT people to date! Now, to gain an even better representation of the millions of lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans people living in the EU, we are looking for even more people to take part in the European LGBT Survey. We are calling on allLGBT people across the EU and Croatia to participate and spread the word - make all experiences count!

To all of you who have taken the survey and already made your experience count, the European Union Agency for Fundamental Rights (FRA) wishes to extend their gratitude. You have made this outstanding achievement possible.

SPREAD THE WORD:

Aside from making your own experience count, you can make a difference by promoting the survey yourself.  You can help the European LGBT Survey reach friends who are less involved in the online community and therefore have a lower chance of coming across the survey announcement on the internet. The European LGBT Survey Team calls on you to personally invite at least 5 LGBT friends to participate and share – let them know, so they can make their experience count too - send them an email, share the survey link (http://lgbtsurvey.eu) on Facebook or Twitter or on your own blog or website.

WHAT IS THE EUROPEAN LGBT SURVEY?:

The first survey of its kind, the European LGBT Survey collects the experiences of lesbian, gay, bisexual or trans (LGBT) people over the age of 18 living in the European Union or Croatia. The survey wants to know about everyday experiences of LGBT people and any discriminatory treatment to which LGBT people may have been exposed. The goal of the survey is to inform policies that combat discrimination against LGBT people in the European Union. The survey is completely anonymous and the questionnaire does not register any information about the respondents’ real or online identities. The European LGBT Survey will be available online until the end of June 2012, in all the languages of the EU countries, as well as in Croatian, Russian and Turkish.

European Leaders - It Gets Better

Bullying, can be eliminated, if you and others stop, tolerating the bully, who only takes on those, who cannot stand up to him, start the end of bullying
Watch the clip on www.maltagayrights.org/bully.php
If you’re a victim of bullying talk to an adult you feel you can trust or call the helpline on 2143 0006.

Bullying, can be eliminated, if you and others stop, tolerating the bully, who only takes on those, who cannot stand up to him, start the end of bullying

Watch the clip on www.maltagayrights.org/bully.php

If you’re a victim of bullying talk to an adult you feel you can trust or call the helpline on 2143 0006.

Diversity Day at MCAST

MGRM was invited to participate in MCAST’s Diversity day on April 26th , where we had an informational stand. We spoke to students about such difficulties as coming out and dealing with bullying & homophobia. Speeches were given by Gabi Calleja & Luisa Tolu of We Are explaining what the organisations were about, as well as appealing for the students of MCAST to be tolerant & accepting of their peers who might be in the process of coming out, and to remain as a pillar of support for their friends. 

by - David Debono 

LGBT INTERVIEWS - AL BUHAGIAR

Anyone who has ever been to an event organized with LGBT people in mind has definitely heard of Chunky’s Phat Beatz, a familiar face in the DJ booth. Al Buhagiar talks to Rachel Agius about labels, Pride and how a young music fan goes on to become one of the most popular DJs on the island.

You have been a DJ and out on the scene for a while now. Overall, how would you describe your experience of being a well-known gay person? Have there been instances when being both has been especially difficult or more of an advantage?

I would like to think that being a homosexual and an openly gay man has not gotten in the way of being a relatively successful DJ, but since the gay scene is where I started playing, then the two kinda go together. Being a semi-permanent fixture on the gay scene (I hate to use the term ‘well-known’, it’s so hedonistic) has of course helped me get to where I wanted to, in DJing terms. Having been on the scene since the very young age of 15, I have experienced many aspects of the local gay scene. Both when it was flourishing with various clubs, bars and monthly events to sadder times when there was not a single club/venue and/or party promoter. One would go to a party and the music was generally not that good. Having worked behind the bar at Lady Godiva has gotten me more directly in touch with music as it was then played by one of my mentors, DJ Pierre who now lives in London. I guess that is where it really happened for me. I would go up to Pierre and repeatedly ask him to play certain tracks and ask him name of others. Now, this is way before we had smart phones when all you need to do is launch Shazam or Soundhound et voila’, its right there on your screen. Whether being recognizable has helped me get or lose gigs, I am not sure I can answer. All I know is that I would like to think that people hire me purely for my music style and my ability to keep a party going. And for that reason I have a residency at a very prominent straight venue and another residency with the best and most important LGBT party promoters on the island.

There is such a range of identities out there - bear, cub, otter, silver fox and others - some people, especially the straight folk, find it difficult to understand them. What do you, personally, identify as and what does that mean to you? Any comments on the local scene in this respect?

Oh honey, the list of categories is endless! The whole categorizing or labeling thing is a contradiction and I believe goes against everything that organizations like the MGRM are fighting for. I mean, we are already marginalized by society at large. Why do we have to create further subgroups within an already existing subculture and go and call ourselves all sorts of animal names under the sun? I mean, I used to identify with the bear scene back in the 90’s mostly because the scene there was a more adult one and less fashionista. Nowadays, I don’t even qualify as a bear as I do not have the right amount of fat vis-à-vis muscle, body and facial hair and checked shirts in my wardrobe. If there’s going to be a category I need to put myself in to be accepted, then I want to be with the fat & hairy twinks. As for straight folks understanding the subcategories, well, I say let them be confused. Ignorance is indeed bliss!

Your work as a DJ involves constant creativity, meeting new people and evolving along with the changing face of music. Has your sexuality contributed to your work in any way? 

I feel that being gay does give you a different sensibility in the way you see, perceive, digest and process things, music being one of those things. I mean, I remember playing a track to another (straight) DJ friend of mine last year. I was over the moon with the find going into each and every detail of the kick, the bass, the snare, the peak, the break, the vocals, the highs  He just looked at me as said: Man, that’s one nasty track; it won’t work! True to form, I took it with me to play at the End of Summer party and once I dropped it I had everyone’s hands up in the air, singing along to the tune and generally creating a euphoric buzz that only happens once every so often. So, I guess yeah, being a gay DJ does give you that advantage especially when playing for an LGBT crowd. Generally speaking my crowd likes to hear a sophisticated beat full of disco, funk and big vocals. Those big vocal tracks are what separate me from the other DJs. Of course, on the night of an event I do my homework and once I’m on the decks Chunky takes over and the music becomes my Phat Beatz. I always tell this to others: it is not what a DJ plays, but how they are played and in which sequence. The DJ must know his crowd and in return, the crowd appreciates that.

Gay Pride is a big deal worldwide but a relatively small affair locally. Some people have wondered whether it makes any difference to the situation in Malta and whether it is worth having at all. What’s your stand on the celebration locally? 

This is such a delicate subject in which I really wouldn’t want to get into. If and when I am in Malta I always try to attend to the Pride March as I feel this is the least I could do in return for the hard work that the MGRM are continuously doing. Does it make a difference? I’m sure it does stir some waters. Lately we have been hearing about the introduction of Same Sex Partnership under the current legislation. I am sure that no political party one day thought: Oh, let’s have all the LGBT Community married! The discussion in parliament alone is the fruit of the labour of such pride marches and activism. So, as I said, without going into much detail, yes the Pride March, be it a small or large affair, is an important one and therefore should be supported by more people from within the LGBT Community.

by - Rachel Agius - eweandme.blogspot.com

illustration by Nadine Noko